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  • Yesterday my sister had her surgery-she had a hysterectomy.  That well really well.  She had the surgery in the morning and they were finished by 8:30am.  She would have probably been sent home sooner today, but there was a bit of a concern regarding her heart.  They discovered that her heart beats too fast so they ended up doing an EKG and an ultrasound of the heart, and keeping her on the heart monitor for 24 hours.  They found an abnormality on the EKG, but they said she will be ok to go home, and they will follow up with her at a cardiology office in 2 weeks.  Of course, she'll also have to follow up with the doctor regarding her female parts in one week, to be sure everything is still going smoothly there.  I'm really hoping that having had this surgery will help her=she is kind of a wreck sometimes because she has had so many issues "down south".  I don't know what to make of the heart issue-she is a constantly stressed out person....she just has always been very high strung.  It is hard to tell if this issue was related to her nerves, the medication she was given for the surgery, or some other problem.  The doctor seemed to think it could be either way, so that is why they will be doing the follow up.  He is a great doctor and she is in good hands.

    My dad stayed with her kids for the past 2 days so that her husband could be at the hospital with her, and since she is home now, my dad has decided to come to my house for the night.  I guess he is going to drop off my son's Christmas gift, and then just spend the night here and go home in the morning.  Since he is coming, I rushed home from the hospital when my sister was released so that I could at least pick up the worst of our Christmas clutter!  This is my five minute break, but the vacuum awaits, so I better get off!

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    Toxic People: 10 Ways to Deal
    By Lillian Glass

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  • This has been a pretty good weekend.  I have a 4 day weekend this time, because our office is closed on Christmas Day, and I took off on Christmas Eve since I knew that I had my son for the holiday this year and wanted to be able to spend some good time with him.I have been trying to come up with some fun things for us to do each day so that he has a good time even though we did not travel to spend time with cousins/family this year.

    Friday night we went to the Phoenix Zoo for Zoolights.  That was fun, although I was kind of surprised that there weren't more lights.  It was very easy to see everything within an hour or an hour and a half.  When we went, I kind of expected to spend about four hours there.  It was ok, though, because it doesn't start until 6:00pm anyway, and we got there around 7.  So, including driving time, we were home when it was late enough for bed, so it worked out just fine.

    Saturday we slept in and then just played at home for awhile, and then we went to a movie.  We watched Rise of the Guardians.  I didn't really think that it would be that great, but it was actually a really cute movie!  It had a good story and the graphics were impressive.  I really liked it and my son did as well.  It was lots of fun.

    Sunday morning was church, followed my lunch at a place called Smashburger, with some friends from church.  That was a good time, with lots of laughter.  When we got home from that my son played in his room for awhile and I ended up falling asleep on the couch.

    This morning we slept in again, and then got ready and went to the store.  I had to get a gift card to mail as a gift to a family that my office sponsored this year.  I also picked up a few groceries, some for tomorrow, and then some to use for the recipe of the week, which I might make later today.  We'll see how energetic I am. 

    This evening, we'll go to the candlelight Christmas service. I am really excited about it, because my son has never been to one! He was old enough to go last year but he was with his dad, so this will be something new for him.  Actually since i usually travel for Christmas, I had never been to one either up till last year, and I absolutely loved it.  I can't wait to go tonight.

    Ok-I better get off here and go continue with my laundry!

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    Death by Cake: Book 1 of Lost Secret Series
    By Melanie Ray
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  • Utensils

    Do you have dividers in your utensil drawers?  I do...I have one for my eating utensils...it separates forks, knives, spoons, and then little spoons.   I think those are all the slots.  I remember that growing up, my mom had a divider in hers, but my ex husband's mom didn't, she just tossed everything into a drawer and people just dug through to find what they wanted.  I use mine, but lately I got impatient with the putting away process, and I did just turn the utensil holder from the dishwasher upside on top of the divider and things just went where they went.  It has been about a week since that happened, so I've used up enough forks and things that mostly it is all where it needs to go again, but it just made me wonder how other people do it.

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    Children Of The Covered Wagon
    By Mary Jane Carr
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  • I am in such a weird mood today.   I had a weird weekend, which I suppose sort of snowballed mentally until today rolled around, and now I'm kind of in a bit of a funk.  I wish that something awesomely exciting would happen-something unexpected.  Does it ever seem to you that people you encounter on a daily basis are just so amazingly predictable in their behavior patterns that it is just unbelievable?  Sometimes I feel that way- and I kind of get a little bummed about it.  Sometimes I have a feeling like I just wish something or someone new and totally unexpected and happy would just enter the scene to change things up a bit.  I added the "happy" to that last sentence, because if I'm living in my own little dreamland...then who wants to have a new and unexpected illness or something sad like that? So I added the happy strictly for clarification purposes.  happy

    This weekend I helped my parents move.  They are relocating again for another job.  I won't go into the details, but to sum up:  they are such lost and unhappy people.  They don't get along, so in a lot of ways, I think they'd be happier apart from each other.  At the same time, they (especially my dad) have this weird codependency on each other.  They drink too much and that only contributes to their problems.  Without going in to some long and terribly drawn out stories, it is hard to describe really very adequately, but they are unhappy and it is obvious and it makes my heart sad for them.  I wish there was something I could do for them.  I help where I can, but I don't have what they need. 

    That, combined with some expensive car issues, turned this weekend into a bit of a bust.  I suppose those two things combined have me in an upset, but it left me in the mood and with the feelings referred to in paragraph #1. 

    I hope that you all had a very happy Thanksgiving, and spent good time with friends and loved ones! 

    Back to my kitchen cleaning!

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    Children Of The Covered Wagon
    By Mary Jane Carr
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  • A Tricky Topic....

    Today after church, a small group from my Bible study class all went out to lunch together, as usual.  We have such a fun time and sometimes some really interesting conversations come up.  This afternoon we touched very briefly on a subject that really got me thinking....  the topic:  prisoners rights. 

    My immediate and rather cold hearted opinion was that prisoners should not be allowed to have many rights. I actually even used a bad word during this discussion (shame on me)  because I got all fired up over the whole thing.  One of the things we were talking about specifically was access to the internet.  I said that I don't think that people who are in prison should have any access to the internet at all.  A friend of mine who was sitting across from me (and who is probably a much nicer person than I am) said that she thinks there is a big difference in what should be allowed, depending on the crime.  She used Martha Stewart as an example.  I stated that I feel that even Martha Stewart should not have been allowed access to the internet while she was in prison, and that if she needed or wanted to write to someone that she could have used a pen and a paper.  My friend looked at me like I was mean, and then also went on to bring up the topic of people who are accused and convicted of crimes they actually did not commit.  Of course that got me to thinking about what it would be like if I were in that situation-where I was in a prison for a crime I did not commit, and I wanted to have access to the internet to research or whatever, and try to help myself or to help my attorney to help me.  Then also, what about those that choose to represent themselves?  Don't they need to have access to books and case histories, and other reference materials?

    How does that sort of thing work, in reality?  DO prisoners have access to the internet, and if so, at what level?  Are there restrictions as to which sites they can visit?  If they are allowed to send personal emails, then does someone monitor the content before the message can be sent?  I would assume so, and in many cases, I would hope so.  I just finished reading a book full of case studies, and one was about a man who had been sentenced to life in prison, possibly even the death sentence, and he managed to arrange for a "hit" on the widow of the man he had been sentenced for killing, just purely out of meanness, and in an attempt to gain something small financially.  If he had not had access to other prisoners, who in turn had access to other people on the outside of the prison, this wouldn't have been possible.  If he were forced to sit in a small room, on his own, with no communication with other people, this wouldn't have happened.  So, which is the right way to go with this?

    Another friend who was at the same lunch today sat and looked rather thoughtful but didn't have much to say about it, although I could see the wheels turning.  When I got to thinking about it and realized that really, my original answer probably isn't the right one, I pointed out that I did end up feeling badly about it, and that it really isn't such a black and white matter, that friend said "It's really complicated".  He sure hit the nail on the head with that one, and I was left to wonder what he was thinking on a more specific level.  I mean, really.... it is complicated.  There are so many different ways that this could be managed, and then in turn, mismanaged. 

    What are YOUR opinions?  What rights should prisoners have, and at what levels?  How should these things be enforced and managed?  It is a very interesting topic, one with many different angles and jagged little edges.  I'm curious as to what you all think and I look forward to your responses!

    On another note altogether...... who among you uses facial moisturizer?  I have been thinking it over, and I realize that I have never taken really good care of my skin.  I really don't want to turn into a leather face at the age of 40, so, ladies, help me out!  Which kinds do you use?  And how often? 

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    To Kill A Warlock: The Dulcie O'Neil Series (Volume 1)
    By HP Mallory
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  • It is so nice that it has finally cooled off here in the Valley of the Sun!  Today the high was around 62 or 63!  Lovely!

    My son had his end of the season football party today from 12 to 2.  It was supposed to last until 4, but there was no way it was going to take that long, so we all left early.  They provided food (Boston Market), cake, and little awards for each of the kids.  The kids all had a really good time and it was a nice way to wrap up the season.  I exchanged phone numbers with one of the moms, so it will be interesting to see if we actually stay in touch.

    The little man wasn't feeling so hot before or after the party, he was having a few tummy issues.  He was really tired and wiped out after the party, and also combined with being chilly from outdoors and then coming in and getting warm and cozy in the house, caused him to give in and conk out for quite a long nap after we got home from the party.  He slept for an hour and a half.  I fell asleep too and I think I slept for about an hour.  That was nice and he perked up after he woke up.  He still isn't quite 100%, but seems to be on the mend and hasn't had any more tummy issues since we got home.  Unfortunately, now it is bed time and we are both wide awake.  We'll see how that goes over in the morning when we are trying to get out of bed for church! 

    My Recipe of the Week this time was for Orange Spice Glazed Carrots.  They were made in the crockpot.  They turned out really good!  It is a good fall dish to make.  I think it is funny because although they taste good, if you stick your face over the crockpot and smell them while they are cooking- they smell kind of yucky!  It is a hard smell to describe, but they definitely don't smell as good as they taste. 

    I hope everyone is having a great day! Oh, also, I just started a new book, one of the true crimes studies by Ann Rule.  I've read many of these books throughout the years and I'm sure I'll like this one.  I hope it doesn't invade my dreams too badly-sometimes her books are nightmare worthy.

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    In the Name of Love: Ann Rule's Crime Files Volume 4
    By Ann Rule
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  • Whew!!!!

    Football season is OVER!!!!   My son and I just got home from turning in all of his football gear, and now all that is left is the team party on Saturday.  The part is 4 hours long, which seems a little excessive to me, but I'm no expert, so we'll just go with the flow.

    It has been nice and cool here today and ended up sprinkling a little bit towards the end of the day, which was wonderful!

    It is a relief to have some free time in the evenings now.  This is our first week of freedom from football practice, so I'm still getting back into the groove of things.  For example, it is 6:00pm right now and I can't think what all I'd like to do first!  I have become so used to getting home just in time to get to bed that I'm just not used to it!  I have a new recipe for the week waiting to be made, so I think I'll do that.  It is a crockpot recipe though, so not sure if that is such a good idea-if I were to accidentally forget it, it might be a little bit....dehydrated by the time I woke up. Hmmm. 

     

     

  • Halloween

    Happy Halloween! 

    When I resigned the lease on my apartment, they offered to shampoo my carpets for free as part of the deal.  Who would turn that down!?  So today I had to shut my poor kitty in the bathroom for the day, and the carpet people came in while I was at work and shampooed away.  The carpets look really nice!  I have two windows open and all the fans turned on so that they will hopefully dry a little quicker.  It is nice to have them looking good.  They weren't terrible before, but a few things had worked their way back up through since I had moved in, and then despite my best efforts, there was a stain or two here and there from some cat vomit.  You know, the things that happen in life.  Either way, it is nice!

    Since I work for a pediatrician, we always dress up for Halloween.  I borrowed a coworkers pumpkin costume this year because I didn't want to go and buy anything and I have absolutely no idea where my costume collection is since I moved last year.  This pumpkin costume was very easy-just a pullover thing.  Halloween really isn't my favorite thing, so I just do it for the work.  Anyway, since we knew we would all be in costumes, we decided to have a taco bar type of potluck.  Everyone signed up to bring one item to put on tacos.  It worked really well and we had a good meal and a good time together. 

    My son dressed as Perry the Platypus from that show called Phineas and Ferb.  He was excited about the costume, but like me, he really isn't all that enthusiastic about Halloween in general.  We went up and down 3 streets and he had a good sized bag of candy and he was totally ready to come home, so we did. 

    I am amusing myself tonight-I just went to send a text with the name "Jake" in it.  My phone auto corrected it twice...the first time it changed the name to "Bald" and the second time to "Jaw".  Isn't that funny?  I thought so-I went ahead and laughed to myself for awhile!

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    We Thought You Would Be Prettier: True Tales of the Dorkiest Girl Alive
    By Laurie Notaro
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  • This was such a WEIRD day!!!  Lots of very strange phone calls at work.  Nothing particularly bad or stressful, just strange!   I wonder what tomorrow will bring?!

    Tonight I am going to start reading The Rats of NIMH to my son.  I just finished rereading it myself and I am sure he is at an age where he'll like it! I am excited to see if he likes it as much as I do, or if his taste is totally different.  To be honest, I can't imagine a child NOT liking that book.  Then again, I'm pretty sure my own sister didn't like it, so who knows!?

    This is the book that I am currently reading, We Thought You Would Be Prettier.  It is so funny that I have actually laughed out loud (hard!) in several places.  The author lives right here in the same city as I do, which makes it even funner because she writes about places that I actually know.

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    We Thought You Would Be Prettier: True Tales of the Dorkiest Girl Alive
    By Laurie Notaro
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  • Wide Awake...

    I should be going to sleep right about now.  Instead I am wide awake and I was tossing and turning, so I decided to give it up and come out here and type an entry and mess around on the internet.

    I caught a bit of the debate earlier tonight-it was about the way I figured it would be.  Didn't sway my opinion either way.

    After work I went hiking/jogging around a little mountain near where I work and live.  It was good exercise-I haven't been running like I used to and I can tell that I'm in very bad shape, so I need to work on that.

    I've been thinking over a lot of things lately.  Today someone asked a question that made me think about yet another thing.  The question:  who do you look to as a role model?  Who would you aspire to become more like, or who has certain traits that you admire and respect and really look up to?  It is an interesting topic.  I admire many people for many different reasons-it is hard for me to pin that on just one person.  I would like to take a whole bunch of qualities from a whole bunch of different people and roll it all into one.

    For myself, I think I lack patience.  Which is interesting, because I've also been reading and thinking a lot about spiritual gifts.  That is a topic that comes up every now and then with different Bible studies that I do, and in church, etc.  Anyway, while I feel that I absolutely lack patience, I am continually being placed in the role of teacher.  I can explain things and show things to people in a way where they "get it".  I have a knack for it, and so time after time I find myself in that role, but it is kind of difficult, because I really don't necessarily LIKE to teach.  I feel very impatient and kind of want to lose my mind.  Yet, if that is the gift that I've been given, I will have to use it over and over throughout my life, so I better work on the patience!  It isn't that I snap at people or anything, just that inside I am practically itching with the desire to NOT teach or be the trainer.  It is an interesting situation sometimes.  What do you all think that your spiritual gifts might be?

     

    Hmm......ok, I better go.

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    Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of Nimh (Aladdin Fantasy)
    By Robert C. O'Brien
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    Oh, I did just finish rereading a book from my childhood-one of my favorite kids books of all time: The Rats of NIMH.  For any animal loving child with an active imagination, this book is just magical.  Forever after reading that book, and still today, I imagine cozy little mouse and rat homes with all kinds of little tiny miniature furniture and things to make a lovely little rodent home, with a mother mouse happily tucking her babies in at night.  *sigh*.... things are so much funner inside my imagination....there is no Honta Virus or Bubonic Plague carried by the rats in my head.

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